Messes “I’m … And what if you’re lonely? It sounds silly, right? I’m happy you would choose this lonely blog of all other lonely blogs, books or WebMDs out there. Get up. Another full bag of tortilla chips, dipped into a delicious queso dip. Turn the GPS off and go exploring as far as your mind will fathom and as far as time will allow … and then I want you to keep going.
“What I wouldn’t give to live in South Beach,” you think to yourself. You’re that powerful. Perhaps staring off into the far nether-reaches of the corner of your wall, motionless, wordless, aimless. One thing that could create for you a world which you’ve never dreamed, and will provide the start point for all other endeavors upon which this great life has the potential to carry you toward. I mean that.
I’m asking you to do one thing.
Get out there, now, while you’re young or young at heart. When depression strikes and covers you in a black fog, your brain has a funny way of forgetting everything you know, so this letter is here to remind you of all the things you may forget. I’m asking you to move. Go climb a hill as fast as you can. Living humans move. Write a thank you. You’re depressed.
Log in. I’ll bet you’ve spent a good chunk of time wallowing. Take a road trip to Oregon. All that is a homework assignment — a daunting recipe for failure — and failure is the last thing your body needs right now. A lot of people will tell you they’ve found the keys to happiness and/or success.
I don’t care where. Surely you must, or you wouldn’t have been so compelled to click. They won't care what you look like or how shitty you feel. Here’s a trick. This is the letter anyone who has been hurt, needs to write to free themselves, not only from the anger and the pain, but from the toxic person who still lives in their head, rent free.
Run “I did this for you. I want you to go some place. (Well, finish reading this, first, and then go right now.). You’re not right. And then do it again tomorrow. Because you can wake up one morning next to a stranger, and realize you both took different paths and it breaks your heart… Here is a sad love letter that will make you cry, or at least touch you if the feeling rings a bell! Strike up a conversation about how beautiful the sky looks when its pastel colors are shaded by clouds of methane gas from local refineries. Are you sad right now? And that’s it. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. “It’s cold here. Information about your device and internet connection, including your IP address, Browsing and search activity while using Verizon Media websites and apps. If you don’t stand up for yourself and move and walk out that door right now and say, “Go to hell, inertia, I am going to watch the Chicago Cubs play a doubleheader, and I am bringing a friend.” Or just find a beach. Don’t want to walk? It’s really cold right now.” Let me warm you. Write a letter. It looks motionless. Like it couldn’t possibly be true! Are you ready to break down in tears? You were just passed over for that promotion in favor of that dude who shows up 20 minutes late every day, who spends his entire afternoons reading Buzzfeed and watching Fortnight tutorials from lunch until 5. Motion. Because you mean the world to me. Maybe there isn’t enough Jameson and ice cream in the world that will dull that pain. I understand. Call a friend. Ten Things I Hate About My Husband Right Now, The Key Difference Between Relationships That Last And Ones That Don’t Is A Commitment To Growth, Be Careful of What You Watch With Your Girlfriend On Netflix, The Kind Of Person That’s Worth Falling In Love With, 6 Scientific Signs Your Relationship Will Last, What It’s like Dating Men for Their “Potential”. It’s great to be here!” And I want you to see if you still want to cry. And if none of that’s practical, just go to the Farmer’s Market and find some fresh vegetables and make yourself the goddamn tastiest stir fry you’ve ever had in your life. You’re not feeling it today. You can change your choices at any time by visiting Your Privacy Controls. You want to know why? And walk. You can do it. Read by the pool. I’ll bet you’ve got mail piling up inside your mailbox because it seems too daunting to confront the outside world right now. Here is a sad love letter that makes you cry… One thing, one word, one action that could change your life and harness the infinite power that you hold inside you to change that which is slowly killing you. It’s what separates us from inorganic compounds. Go for a bike ride. 5. It’s really hard to do. Find your future; it won’t come looking for you. This is a letter for that person who feels stuck in life and feels hopeless. Call your sister. (I’ve done that, too.) You’re paralyzed.
If that’s you, you’re not alone and I’m writing this to you. Do not, I repeat, do not, let yourself give in to this. Bit-by-bit, piece-by-piece, pound-by-pound. A lot of people on this site in particular. 4. And then another 45 minutes of staring and contemplating, and suddenly it’s too late to cook a sensible supper, and that choice has been made for you.
Perhaps you’re so paralyzed by rumination and ruination that it takes you 15 minutes to decide if you’re going to take your shoes off and forego a run to the grocery store tonight. Letter to My Depressed Self.
I’ll bet you don’t. Or Montreal. Move.
Very rarely do you find someone riding a bicycle, running a marathon, or going for a swim in the ocean, with tears in their eyes. That person who’s been trying to make a change for so long, but hasn’t been able to. I feel that. Use them for a nice conversation or even a silent hug. In one minute, I will be free from the voices, from the pain, and from you.” — justkilledaman.
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